About Me

♥♥♥ silly. insecure. sensitive. bright. insightful. naive. brave, yet terrified. loud, yet reserved. outgoing, yet shy. enigma. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I’m an Asian-American — well, technically Filipino-American — Catholic girl who’s living Child-Free after Infertility. It sounds simple enough, but having been married since 1996 and trying to start a family since 1997 has not been an …

Five Years

Did you know that both the traditional and modern anniversary gift for five years is wood? Wood?! Good thing we don’t celebrate anniversary dates with other people, because I’m pretty sure I’d be getting a lot of wooden bowls or cutting boards. Or wood statues … Why am I bringing this up? Because today, my …

Thanks-IF-ing

Going through Infertility has brought me many things in my life; both good and bad. But seeing that today is Thanksgiving, I thought I’d share with you what I’m actually thankful that Infertility has given me. So here’s my list: The Weight: With all those pills and shots taken over the years, I can thank …